I would like to wish my bestest friend
Happy
40th!
Jen!
Let me tell you about her - I met her a few years (13-14) back when she and her husband moved to Arizona from law school. As I sat in church one Sunday looking around I spotted her and thought she looked like fun.
So I said to myself, "Self, you should make her your friend."
and I proceeded to...
Luckily we had children the same age and genders (she was prego with Ben at the time) so I invited kids to play. I have to admit when she offered to bring her kids to my house I did not know she was going to ride a bike with a trailer to drop them off. I was amazed it was a long ride and she was pregnant! When I told her I could have come and gotten them she said it was no big deal. Little did I know how much she likes to exercise.
As the years have passed and we raised our kids together I was always grateful she would mother my children and let me mother hers. When our oldest were in grade school we would switch one day a week. On her day the kids would walk to her house after school and spend the afternoon. She taught them piano lessons and only lost Brenn once and that was Ken's fault not Jennys ( he still owes her big for that one!)
She is actually my sister in all ways it counts except for the shared parents - although my parents would be happy to adopt her and I think her parents are great.
There was the Christmas we were both poor and garage saled for presents. Lite brights, easy bake ovens and Rollerblades were the scores that year. That is also the year I stole her tradition of making Christmas PJ's for my kids.
She is one I can share the excitement of a great bargain or is as excited for
BLACK FRIDAY
as I am!! Her love of exercise helps when someone needs to sprint to KB toys for $20 gameboys.
She saved my life when I was down and drugged with headaches. Making sure school things were in order and getting the older kids to their activities and making sure I was still somewhat connected to what was going on.
When she was down with Micah and needed nightgowns I searched and searched for some decent ones, there were none to be found. So I went to Walmart and bought some fabric and made 2 of the ugliest nightgowns but she wore them proudly thru both pregnancies (I am not sure about the current one).
Mostly, she accepts me, warts and all. She knows my shortcomings and still likes me.
Thank Heavens!
If I were to list the traits I admire about her it would go like this:
She is a great teacher. Kids, adults, dogs, whatever.
She is a patient piano teacher.
She thinks playing the piano is no big deal (I can play the radio)
She is articulate. She says what she means.
She has a great husband (that's for you Brad)
She is a great Mother.
She knows what is important and has her priorities in order.
She is giving.
She is generous.
She knows I can't sing, and doesn't judge me for it.
She loves my children.
My husband reminds her of Mr. Incredible (before)
She is a good listener
She has talked on Oprah and was articulate and made a good point. (I've seen the video)
She fulfills her church callings with dedication.
She is a good friend to have on your side.
I could go on and on but that would just embarrass her.
Just wanted her to know I love and treasure her. Thanks Jen. Love ya.